In this post, we’ll review the moderated part of the debate between Nadine Smith of Fairness for All Families and John Stemberger of the Krazy Kristian Kooks or Florida. They were debating the Florida Constitutional Amendment 2 at the Tiger Bay Club of Orlando. This is part of series on Florida’s Amendment 2.

The first question goes to Stemberger, and it is the heart of the matter. The moderator notes that it’s already illegal for gay people to marry here in Florida, so why do we need an amendment. As expected, Stemberger gets on the activist judge bandwagon and talks about Massachusetts, and how they needed an amendment. Since they didn’t have one, the activists judges up there decided to be social change agents. This argument works with stupid people, and Lord knows there are plenty of those, but I was once told by a Judge that the definition of activists judges are judges that rule against you.    

People forget that those “agents of social change” were the ones that ended segregation, poll taxes, and gave women the right to vote. Of course the people in Stemberger’s corner would probably think that was a great idea, and that’s what is sad about America today.

He goes on to claim that the Florida Supreme Court has already ruled that this amendment will not affect domestic partner benefits. Smith counters that the Supreme Court ruled on the only issue before it (which always required for these amendments) that it was a single issue amendment. The Court in effect, was ruling on whether this law did only one thing, deny benefits of marriage to people. They ruled that it did that, and that only. Now, what those benefits are and what that means will be up for interpretation and attack in the courts for years to come.

Stemberger loves to note that state and federal law grants 1,138 rights and benefits to married couples, while domestic partnerships in Florida grants only six or eight. He uses this claim to say that because there are only a few benefits granted under domestic partnerships, they can’t rise to level of “substantial equivalent” of marriage (the amendment language), therefore, domestic partnerships are not threatened.

Smith never points how that his argument is prima facia evidence that gay people, prevented from being married, are already treated unfairly. Of course again, that argument doesn’t fly as well. But it does show disparity and unfair treatment given to gay couples.

The other problem with this argument is that the courts have not ruled on what constitutes a “substantial equivalent thereof.” I mean, how many benefits does it take…6, 23, 47, 102. Are the benefits weighted…If I get three of these and four of those I’m not equivalent, but if I get six of these and two of those I am? Smith kind of points this out, but not with the strong language that is needed here.

Now Stemberger claims the only arrangement that would rise to that level would be full-blown gay marriage that provides all the benefits of marriage. Let’s be sure we save this video for when he starts trying to take away domestic partner benefits.

In the second segment of the moderated portion, Stemberger starts out talking about Fairness for All Families having a “pathetic strategy.” He wags his finger saying that: “They’ve lost every single marriage amendment in the country except for one in Arizona. So in Arizona they said, we’ve gotta change our strategy. We have to scare senior citizens, so they will not debate the policy merits of how gay marriage is not in the best interest of children and families and the common good of society. That’s the bottom line. It’s a scare tactic. They’ve done extensive polling. They’re throwing anything they can throw up to the thing to try to district you from what the real policy issue is.” 

I concede his point to a degree. We downplay the unfairness to gay couples, but it is also true that once these amendments pass, these people so hate, and are so threatened by gay people (for some reason), that they will attack domestic partner benefits that apply to everyone, just to deny them to gay people. That’s the part of their story they won’t talk about.

Stemberger goes back to the old “protecting children” theme, saying the need the socialization that comes from heterosexuals. You know, those people that have done so good at protecting their institution of marriage and keeping kids in two parent families. He says their only motivation (meaning primarily his) is to protect basic institutions.

Smith finally attacks a bit the hateful rhetoric and puts out there the real question about how they treat this as a zero sum game. If I get something, then they get less. She finally makes the point to the crowd that no one has offered any information about how existing marriages are changed-damaged, whatever, if this does not pass.

Stemberger once again goes back to the old line of protecting institutions that protect children. Stemberger does say this amendment will prevent civil unions.

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