The World Needed Dolly Parton

Long before Dolly Parton became a superstar, I met her at a little outdoor music park near Kings Mountain. I am not even sure she was the headline act. It was a fleeting childhood encounter, but it connected me, however briefly, to a woman whose generosity would eventually touch millions of lives.

Dolly created jobs, helped students stay in school, supported families devastated by wildfires, funded research behind the Moderna COVID-19 vaccine, provided free college education to thousands of workers, and delivered more than 332 million books to children. She also stood firmly with the LGBTQ community, even when doing so cost her support among some fans.

Dolly Parton wrote songs the world will always remember. But the most beautiful thing she created may have been the life she chose to live. Read my tribute to a woman who proved that success means far more when you use it to lift others.

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When “Waste” Becomes a Political Word Instead of a Financial One

This entry is in the series Hillsborough DOGE Report Analysis

“Waste” should describe money spent badly. Too often, it becomes a political label applied before anyone proves that a program failed, cost too much, or duplicated another service.

This essay looks at how that label can be used to weaken support for public programs before the facts are settled. Real waste should be cut. Political dislike should be debated honestly. Those are not the same thing.

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Real Waste, Fake Waste, and Things Republicans Just Don’t Like

This entry is in the series Hillsborough DOGE Report Analysis

Not every proposed cut is the same. Unused software licenses, underused vehicles, vague contracts, and weak bidding rules are real places to look for waste.

But the Hillsborough County DOGE report also targets nonprofits, equity work, community outreach, and cultural programs. In this essay, I separate genuine control problems from programs that appear to have been labeled “waste” because committee members do not like their purpose.

Political opposition is fair. Calling it financial analysis is not.

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True Joy Is a Serious Thing

This entry is in the series Journey Through Stoicism

For years, the Latin phrase Res severa est verum gaudium has appeared at the bottom of my personal letterhead. I understood it to mean, “True joy is a serious thing,” and I loved the way it gave joy weight. Only recently did I learn that the words came from Seneca.

That discovery opened the door to a deeper reflection on the difference between happiness and joy. From the grand ending of Mussorgsky’s Pictures at an Exhibition to a quiet hillside in Boone, this essay explores the kind of joy that carries memory, beauty, loss, gratitude, and meaning all at once.

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The Promise and the Pain of 250 Years

This entry is in the series The 250th 4th

Essay 1 of a series examining where we are at 250 years

For many Americans, the Fourth of July is a celebration filled with fireworks, flags, and patriotic pride. But as our nation marks the 250th anniversary of the Declaration of Independence, I find myself looking back to the optimism of the 1976 Bicentennial and wondering what became of the country I believed we were becoming. This is not a rejection of America, but a lament for a promise that feels increasingly out of reach.

The Declaration was never meant to be proof that America had achieved liberty and equality. It was an invitation for every generation to continue the work of building a more perfect Union. As constitutional norms erode and our politics become more divided, I struggle to celebrate, but I also remember John Lewis’ reminder never to surrender to despair. Patriotism, perhaps, is not blind celebration, but the willingness to keep defending the ideals that first gave birth to this nation.

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The Decision Was Mine-The Outcome Was Not

This entry is in the series Journey Through Stoicism

Lately, life has been asking for more decisions than usual. Not small ones, but the kind that seem to carry a future inside them. Work. Money. Health insurance. A parent’s care. A funeral. An estate. What to keep. What to let go. What to protect. What to release. In this season, I have learned that decision-making is not only a matter of logic. It also carries emotional weight, especially when the outcome remains uncertain.

In this essay, I reflect on a difficult job-search decision that still brings occasional regret, and how Stoic philosophy helps me think about it more clearly. The Stoics remind us that we can control the care, judgment, and integrity we bring to a decision. We cannot control the outcome. That distinction does not eliminate uncertainty, but it does offer a kind of mercy. Sometimes the best we can do is choose honestly from the place where we stand, then release what was never fully ours to command.

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Viktor Frankl: The Last Human Freedom

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This entry is in the series The Stoics

There are seasons in life when the question is no longer whether things are difficult. The difficulty is already there. A parent dies. A career changes unexpectedly. A familiar version of life begins slipping away, and suddenly the future feels less certain than it once did. In those moments, we are left asking a quieter and more important question: What now?

In this essay, I reflect on Viktor Frankl, a Holocaust survivor, psychiatrist, and author of Man’s Search for Meaning. Through Frankl’s life and philosophy, and through some deeply personal experiences of grief, transition, and rebuilding, I explore the idea that meaning is not something we discover once and hold forever. It is something we continue choosing, step by step, even when life feels unsettled. Read more.

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Marcus Aurelius: Meditations Was Never Meant for You

This entry is in the series The Stoics
This entry is in the series Journey Through Stoicism

Most of us think philosophy is meant for big moments like crisis, loss, and life-altering decisions. But what if it’s actually meant for something quieter? The ordinary days when nothing falls apart, but something still feels off. The slow drift of attention, the small irritations that take more than they should, the moments where we lose our footing without even realizing it.

Marcus Aurelius never intended his Meditations to be read by anyone. They were private notes. Reminders to himself to stay grounded, to respond better, to return to what he knew mattered. In this essay, I explore how those quiet, personal corrections still speak to us today, and why we don’t need an empire to govern, just a Tuesday to get through. Read more.

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Who Are the Stoics?

This entry is in the series Journey Through Stoicism
This entry is in the series The Stoics

Let’s be honest: when you hear the word Stoic, maybe you picture a distant figure, an old philosopher in flowing robes, sitting far away from the noise and chaos of real life. But the real heart of Stoicism isn’t about detachment or shutting down your feelings. It’s actually a philosophy for living well in a complicated world. That neat, distant image isn’t just outdated—it completely misses the point.

The Stoics weren’t removed from life—they were in the middle of it. They argued in marketplaces, advised emperors, endured exile, and faced the same uncertainty, loss, and frustration we deal with today. And they weren’t all ancient relics either. Stoicism didn’t disappear with Rome; its ideas have carried forward across the centuries and still shape how we think about resilience, purpose, and how to live well.

This new sub-series begins by asking a simple question: Who were these people, really? We start at the beginning—with Zeno—and begin to see the Stoics not as distant figures, but as companions in a conversation that’s still unfolding.
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